You can do it.

Do not expect others to fix your life for you.  Ask for guidance, and mentoring, but realize that you are the only one that can change your life.  And you have the power within you to change your life starting right now! You have already been given everything you need to succeed…now take it and run with it! You can do it.  Start today by smiling at yourself more.

Help People, and get help.

Always think about how you can help the people you meet in your life.  The more you help others, the more help you will start receiving.  Ask to help others! And ask for help! We have trained ourselves to believe that asking for help make us weak.  Go farther than you could ever go on your own by getting some quality help in every area of you life.  This will truly make you more powerful.  Namaste!

Communication is key.

Communication is the key in any relationship.  Communication requires that you express yourself honestly, and also be able to listen carefully.  It requires that you take turns, and be respectful, and not take things personally.  It also requires that you ask for clarification in a non emotional way when you simply do not understand where someone is coming from.  If you are too emotional, it is always better to indicate that you need to walk away than to stay and say something you might regret.  The goal is to have each party involved in the communication feel that they have been heard, and that there is understanding.  Fixing a problem may not necessarily be a required result of communication.  Take the time to appreciate where each person involved in the communication is coming from and it will help you respond in a way that will help everyone.  Think win-win for everyone involved.  Happy chatting! Namaste.